Hanging pictures require all those tools?

12 Aug

So, a couple of nights ago, we decided to hang pictures in the house. I would take down some of mine and we would add some of his.

Now, in my experience, picture-hanging for an entire house only takes about thirty minutes. Grab a few nails, the hammer and good set of eyeballs and you should be set. Right?

Well…I took a deep breath when I saw the stud finder, leveler, tape measurer, pencil, nails, hammer, drill, screws and screw reinforcer case things all being placed out on the counter. Clearly, I had misjudged the situation.

We spent the next two, maybe three hours hanging pictures. HOURS!!

As my husband and father-in-law measured, marked and hammered away, it was my job to sit back and assess whether or not something was crooked or uneven. That was a good job for me. It meant I could nap on the stairs. Hey it was late!

By the time we were finished, we had several perfectly placed pictures adorning our walls.

I guess there’s something to be said about precision. To my husband, it means approaching each project with a step-by-step plan that involves the assessment of accuracy all along the way. My idea of precision means taking a few stabs at it until I get it right. I mean no one likes a crooked/uneven picture.

I couldn’t help but wonder what they thought when they removed some of my pictures that I had hung. I bet they were horrified by the number of holes in my wall. Oh well.

Nonetheless, I learned that patience and precision has its rewards. Lesson four.

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“Time spent with cats is never wasted.”

28 Jul

So, I just recently came to the realization that after Jake passes (which hopefully won’t be for a long, long time), I may never own a cat again.  This makes me sad.  I love cats!  I love their unique personalities.  I love how playful they are and how independent they can be.  Their independence makes their affection so much more meaningful…

Unfortunately, my husband is allergic to cats.  Jake pre-dates my husband and my husband knew going into the relationship that Jake and I were a package deal.  So, we had an understanding.

But, I hadn’t really thought past that.  I was just thinking the other day how I’ve always wanted a Scottish Fold.  I mean, they’re the most adorable cats…plus they have excellent personalities (so I’ve read).

Look at those eyes…and those ears…

I even made mention to my husband that I wanted our next cat to be a Scottish Fold.  He quickly said no.  He reminded me that his heavy breathing and constant hacking wasn’t because of dust or pollen. It was because of Jake.  So, unless Scottish Folds can be bred as hypoallergenic cats, I may never have my own floppy-eared fuzz ball.

Sacrifice, lesson three.

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On Furniture Arrangement and the Married Life

27 Jul

I never knew furniture arrangement could be so challenging.  In the past, when I wanted to move furniture, I would.  I’d place it exactly where I wanted it.  And, I’d move on to my next project. Those were simpler times.

Now that I’m married, I have to confer with a second person.  What happens when we disagree?  Clearly, I’m right.  Is it possible to compromise when arranging furniture? What if compromise means ruining the feng shui?

Anyway, last night, my husband and father-in-law graciously moved a behemoth dresser into the bedroom.  However, they placed it on the wrong wall.  They had placed the dresser on the wall where we intended to mount our TV. The altitudinous (word of the day) dresser would have totally blocked the TV.  So, they moved it.

I managed to arrange the furniture in the study, myself.  However, it wasn’t easy.  I moved desks, a hutch, a filing cabinet, boxes, a futon couch, etc.  Everything was perfectly placed…until my husband offered his feedback.  Apparently, he’s not into the whole diagonal couch approach.  He also wanted to get rid of one of the desks (it didn’t match the other furniture).  I guess I should have solicited his opinion prior to my heavy lifting.

Lesson Two, Communication.

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Wedded Bliss

23 Jul

So, now that I’m approaching three weeks of marriage, I’m practically an expert.  And, I thought it might be fun to blog about all the things I’ve learned.

For example…

I decided right away, as we lounged by the pool on our honeymoon, that if we just spent the rest of our lives vacationing, this marriage thing would be a piece of cake!  We would never be stressed.  We would never fight.  And, the only tough decisions we’d make would be about which frozen cocktails to drink, which restaurant to eat in, etc.

Well, on our first day back from the honeymoon,  I did like thirty-seven loads of laundry.  Apparently, when you’re married, you can’t wait until the end of the month to do your laundry.  And when you do your laundry, it’s no longer acceptable to pile as much clothes into the washer as you can.  I guess the washer can break if it exceeds a certain weight.  Also, I’m told things don’t get as clean.  Whatever.

Did you know that t-shirts can be ironed?  If you had asked me that a month ago, I would have denied it.  The other day I found myself actually ironing my t-shirt before running to the grocery store one Saturday morning.  That’s right!  I guess the quantity of wrinkles in my t-shirt (pre-marriage, I never would have noticed) was enough to catch one’s attention.  My husband asked me if I had any other shirts I could wear…

And speaking of t-shirts, apparently I can no longer wear my t-shirts that were acquired throughout my college years.  So they’re a little dingy…I still love them. My giant, pit-stained TU basketball shirts will always have a special place in my heart.

…I just can’t wear them anymore.  Submission, lesson one.

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China Part Two: I’m a Tourist…at the Temple of Heaven!

23 Jun

One of my favorite sites we visited was Beijing’s Temple of Heaven.  The private park was beautifully maintained and perfectly complemented with Chinese architecture.

The Hall of Prayer for Good Harvests and surrounding buildings are said to be located in the exact center of Beijing.  In ancient China, the Emperor would travel twice a year from the Forbidden city to the Temple to pray on behalf of his country for good harvests.  It was believed that the smallest of mistakes made during these ceremonies would mean a bad omen for the whole nation in the coming year.

Check out the detail on these buildings…

I really enjoyed just walking around the grounds.  The park was filled with lots of people.  Some just sat and observed.  While others participated in various activities.  A group of old men kicked around something that looked like a hacky sack.  Some people were selling things.  We strolled along, casually, taking it all in. Serenity

Later that day, we swapped tranquil for bustle when we traveled to the Olympic sites in Beijing. In my next post, I will show some pictures of the infamous torch and the Cube…

Millennials call themselves Christians, but not religious…

13 May

In a recent study, done by LifeWay Research (USA Today article), 18 to 29 year-olds claim to be Christian.  However, the study also says the group sees themselves as “more spiritual than religious”.  Never mind the two terms are synonymous.  These two findings seem to be very contradictory.  How can you claim to be a Christian, but not religious?

Have we forgotten (or maybe we never learned) what the term “Christian” means?  The Greek word “Christianos” means “follower of Christ”.   Hmm.  Next question. What does it mean to follow Christ?  Well, we would have to study the life of Jesus to know him and to understand how he lived.  As we do so, we would change our own lives to mirror his.

Ok, that’s what it means to be a Christian.  But, what does it mean to be religious?  And was Jesus religious?  According to its definition, to be religious, one must have or show a belief in and veneration/respect for God, especially as it is reflected in the practice of religion. Religious implies adherence to religion in both belief and practice.

I think it’s safe to say Jesus demonstrated an adherence to religion in both belief and practice throughout his life. He had a relationship with his Father in heaven, which was demonstrated by his teachings, prayers, fasting and other spiritual disciplines.  His character also attested to his faith. Jesus was truly a courageous man.  He walked the road to the cross, knowingly.  He even told his disciples as they approached Jerusalem of his death.  Yet, he walked the road anyway.

Jesus was also compassionate.  We can read about numerous encounters Jesus had with society’s outcasts.  He healed the sick and dined with lepers.  He showed compassion toward men and women trapped in their own sin.  And he forgave them.  Remember the story of Mary Magdalene? Mary had been condemned to death by society because of her adultery. Jesus intervened.  He forgave her and instructed her to go and sin no more.

Jesus also prayed.  We read of countless times, Jesus separated himself from the crowds to pray. He would pray in the morning, pray on a mountain and pray in the wilderness. Prayer was apart of his daily life.

Jesus also studied the Old Testament Scriptures.  He often quoted what he read.  He taught in the Temple. His messages were based on Old Testament Scripture.

Jesus also loved the Church.  The church was not a building. It was not a set of rules.  It was and is the body of believers.  The church, described in Acts 2, described Christ followers as devoted to the apostles’ teaching, to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and prayer.  All of the believers were together and had everything in common.  They would sell their possessions and goods to give to those in need.  They spent their time praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.

Jesus’ life attested to his faith and relationship with His Father in heaven.  He most definitely practiced religion, making him “religious”.  Therefore, in order to be a Christian (or Christ follower), one must actually be religious.

My point is this, the term “Christian” is used too loosely today. It’s important we understand what we’re calling ourselves.  If we truly understand the life of Jesus, Christianity and even the Church, perhaps being “religious” wouldn’t be such a bad thing.

P.S. If anyone would like to explain to me the difference of being “more spiritual than religious”, please do.   I still don’t understand what that means…

Stupid Things People Say

20 Apr

Ok, so I have one of those page-a-day desk calendars called something like “365 Stupidest Things Ever Said”.  Today’s entry made me laugh, so I thought I’d share.  It said:

“In an article on drug smuggling in Venezuela that began on Page 1A Monday, an incorrect photograph was used on Page 2A for jailed drug trafficking suspect Feris Farid Dominguez. The error occurred in the newsroom production process. The photo that was used was that of Leonel Fernandez, president of the Dominican Republic. The Miami Herald regrets the error.”

A most unfortunate error, indeed.  At least they regret it!

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