This is a question I’ve often asked myself. I understand it may work differently for guys. But, there seems to be a certain set of rules in play when visiting the ladies’ room. And, if those rules are violated, it can be very upsetting.
The greatest offense is bathroom lingering. If you’re not the only one occupying a stall, you’re on a clock. Once you’ve finished the task and washed your hands (yes, this goes without saying), get out. There’s no need to poke at your hair, straighten your collar, or even wipe smeared make-up from under your eyes. Just get out. Obviously, your stall neighbor needs to finish her business…you probably interrupted her. Politely leave.
Talking while in the stalls…is it really necessary to carry on a conversation? It forces you to listen to the other person. I can’t filter out certain sounds and be expected to respond to questions at the same time. In my opinion, conversations can wait.
Repeat flushing is my biggest pet peeve. In a world where green is envied, please don’t flush the toilet 87 times just so fellow restroom occupiers don’t hear you toot. And if, heaven forbid, a toot does sneak out unfiltered from the neighboring stall…out of courtesy, you need to leave as soon as possible. Obviously, she is willing to go to great measures to keep you from hearing what’s going on. It’s the right thing to do.
And lastly, look before leaving the stall. If you sprinkle when you tinkle, please be neat and wipe the seat. Seriously, take a second to clean up after yourself. If toilet paper is hanging over the edge of the toilet, properly place it inside the bowl and flush. If not all of your toilet bowl contents have flushed, flush again. And, please, make sure the trash can is shut. There’s no need to leave it hanging open for the next visitor to see inside.
Those are my bathroom etiquette requests. Am I asking too much? Let me know if you think I’ve left anything off of the list.
